Inspiring a Mystery!!

"Oh my goodness..... I mean no disrespect at all..... please believe me..... but you are really and seriously beautiful! I mean wow..... You are really pretty and you have a very nice vibe from what I can see. Thanks so much for sharing gorgeous. Not only are you beautiful inside..... but just as amazing outside as well. An inspiration."

At 6:39 am, when my eyelids are still drooping and I am still wondering if an extra 30 minute nap will make me feel better after a sleepless night, I am welcomed into a new day with these words by Mr Mystery! A couple of days ago I was thinking that even though I have revamped my old blog, deleting all the previous posts since there is a monumental change in how I would think then and how I do now,what should I write in this "new" blog. Being called "An Inspiration" by someone really made me feel like marking those words and keeping them close to my heart....because if I can inspire someone else, how can I disappoint myself? This new change in me has made more mellow and accepting of things.

 I read that "You can find yourself in an endless loop where you explain that you feel negative because of the negative behavior of someone else. But if, instead, you take control of your own emotions and you think an improved thought because it feels better to do so, you will discover that no matter how the negative trend got started, you can turn it around."

Well now if doing so makes one feel better, then why not? Some people's comments or scorns make us feel bad or rather, insecure but if a stranger's unconditional and simple smile can make you feel better about yourself even for a minute, then I guess I’ll look at these smiles and ignore the comments. WHOA! She said I am a  bitch. OMG! She said I need a makeover. But damn, he said I inspire him. Now if I believe both of ‘em, wouldn't that be contradictory? "People hate me, but damn I inspire some people!" I find it totally BLAH and weird. So this new CHANGE in me makes me believe whatever I want to believe. I inspire people!. Well you said it. I heard it!”Ahh. Actually I hate you.” Excuse me? What? I didn't hear you? Your voice and your vibe are too low to penetrate my heart.! :D

So from thinking. thinking and thinking a bit more thinking about irrelevant stuff, and then wasting my time, spoiling my mood and having a lousy day, I have changed to thinking a bit about worthwhile stuff and acting upon them and enjoying every moment in real time than just thinking about them! And within a month, I've come close to inspiring people or rather, inspiring a mystery! When it comes to inspiration, I am one of those people who always take cues from successful people and get inspired, but the fact that for some I am an inspiration, inspires me to grow and be even more free spirited!

Thank you mystery! You just made me feel that this change is definitely for the better!